EL QUE LA SIGUE, LA CONSIGUE...If at first you don't succeed, try, try again

Durante mucho tiempo, pensé y creí que era imposible encontrar a alguien con la capacidad suficiente para saber amar. La varias veces que me he arriesgado a iniciar una relación seria y firme, no han tardado mucho en aparecer los intereses materialistas y pecuniarios respectivos. Olvidando obviamente la expresión y vivencia emocional y sentimental, la cual pasaba a un segundo o tercer plano

Me sentí a veces bastante decepcionado cuando realmente descubro detrás de la otra persona, un intento de manipulación egoísta en beneficio particular, lamentable y triste. Durante bastante tiempo llegue a pensar que todo se resumía a un intento de interés, olvidándose de lo mas importante...el interior emocional y sentimental de la otra persona..

No soporto que las mujeres se vendan...no soporto que los hombres compren. Me parece el ultimo eslabón de los frustrados y frustradas. Creo que toda persona tiene suficientes valores y aptitudes para ser valorado por los demás y querer permanecer a su lado. 

No hay nada que vender o comprar, hay aptitudes y cualidades que apreciar y querer. Creo que cuando una mujer se vende a nivel cultural, intelectual, sexual, emocionalmente falso....es el fin de esa persona, pero también pienso que cuando un hombre va con la tarjeta de credito directamente a una mujer así, detrás de eso se enconde un vació de ese hombre tan grande, una infravaloración personal tan grande...que la suple con dinero o bienes.

Siempre he salido huyendo cuando se me ha acercado una mujer, y con sus bellas palabras, al poco tiempo te das cuenta tristemente que tan solo esconden un interes particular, ante lo cual tratan tan solo de instrumentalizarte en un provecho personal. A mi juicio eso no es amor ni nada, es tan solo un fraude emocional. No culpo a las mujeres de esa aptitud, pues también he de ser objetivo, y decir que gran cantidad de hombres compran con dinero lo que se les vende....me parecen ambos casos igual de lamentables a nivel humano.

Pero...pero...me siento feliz, porque he de decir que he encontrado, tras varios años desde mi divorcio, una persona, que SI SABE AMAR, que si sabe entender, comprender y lo mas importante...con una fantástica y llena vida emocional y sentimental...porque ESOS SON LOS PILARES de toda relación y matrimonio. Una persona que sabe que los proyectos comunes se hacen mano a mano y benefician a las dos personas. Lo material es necesario, pero SECUNDARIO ante esto. 

Moraleja...NUNCA HAY QUE DESANIMARSE, SIEMPRE SEGUIR INTENTANDOLO EL QUE LA SIGUE...LA CONSIGUE.

For the long time, I thought and believed that it was impossible to find someone with the aptitude sufficient to be able to love. You her change times that I have risked initiating a serious and firm relationship, they have not been late very much in the respective materialistic and pecuniary interests appeared. Forgetting obviously the expression and emotional and sentimental experience, which was going on to the second or third plane

I felt sometimes quite disappointed when really I discover behind another person, an attempt of egoistic manipulation in particular, deplorable and sad benefit. During enough time go so far as to think that everything was summed up to an attempt of interest, forgetting of the most important thing... the emotional and sentimental interior of another person.

I do not support that the women are bandaged... do not support that the men buy. The last link of the frustrated ones seems to me and frustrated. I believe that every person has enough values and aptitudes for being valued by the others and for wanting to remain next to you. There is nothing that to sell or to buy, there are aptitudes and qualities to be appreciated and to be wanted. 

I believe that when a woman sells at cultural level, intellectual, sexual, emotionally false.... is the end of this person, but also I think that when a man goes with the credit card straight to a woman like that, behind that enconde one emptied of this so big man, such a big personal undervaluing... that fulfills it with money or goods.

I have always gone out fleeing when me a woman has approached, and with its beautiful words, to a little time you realize sadly that only they hide a particular interest, before which they treat only of instrumentalizarte in a personal profit. To my judgment this is neither love nor anything, it is only an emotional fraud. I do not blame the women of this aptitude, since also I have to be a target, and to say that large number of men buys with money what one sells to them.... there look like to me both cases equally of deplorable at human level.

But... but... I feel happy, because I have to say that I have found

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after several years from my divorce, a person, that IF HE CAN LOVE, that if he can understand, understand and the most important thing... with a fantastic and full emotional and sentimental life... because THESE ARE THE PROPS of any relation and marriage. A person that he knows that the common projects do hand to themselves to hand and benefit two persons. The material thing is necessary, but SECONDARY before this. 

Moral... IT IS NEVER NECESSARY TO DISCOURAGE, ALWAYS TO KEEP ON TRYING THE ONE THAT CONTINUES IT... IT OBTAINS IT.