- Muchas veces me paro a pensar sobre las causas de este problema en las relaciones, ¿que lleva a un hombre a ser infiel, o a una mujer a serlo?. En mi opinion, hay una base raiz común: la perdida del amor, o la dismunicion del mismo hasta unos limites incapaces de contentar a una de las partes, o a ambas. He de ser objetivo, y decir que la mayoria de las infidelidades surge del hombre. Yo pienso que basicamente y la mayoria de los casos influye el tema fisico, pero tambien mucho el emocional, si una mujer no puede seguir en mayor o menor medida el ritmo del hombre....este buscara la mujer que lo haga.
- Si una mujer cae en el error de no cuidarse lo suficiente para estar atractiva y sugerente para el hombre...este buscara quien lo este. Los hombres podremos tener mas o menor cultura, mayores o menores principios, ...pero todos tenemos en nuestra genetica ese aspecto quiza primigenio, pero muy real. Si en el sexo, el hombre esta disconforme o a disgusto, buscara otra. No quiero decir con esto que a mi juicio la mujer tenga que ser una esclava en aspectos de imagen o sexo, tampoco es eso, pero si saber mantenerse viva en esos puntos.
- Pero claro, ahora toca el otro turno. ¿porque la mujer es infiel?, he de decir que la mujer es mas fiel que el hombre por naturaleza cuando ama, mas doliente, mas sufriente si llega el caso, pero entonces...¿porque es infiel?, yo solo pienso una razón. Porque no se siente amada.
- La finalidad y el hecho en si de ser mujer, es ser amada, querida, respetada. la mujer solo pide eso, no le importa pasar momentos complicados, si es amada, es la primera en ofrecerse para cualquier asunto, pero solo si es amada....quiza en el fondo habria que replantear el titulo de esta reflexion, y llegar a la conclusión que no hay mujer infiel, sino hombre que no ama, aunque en su momento lo hiciese bien.
- Si, porque yo creo que si una mujer no es amada...se irá, si no se siente respetada, lo buscara por ahi el hombre que la de ese amor y cariño. Si no es tratada por el hombre con respeto y dignidad, se ira...por lo cual nos derivamos a final hacia una conclusion muy clara.
- "EL AMOR, HAY QUE CUIDARLO DIA A DIA, DE HOMBRE A MUJER Y DE MUJER A HOMBRE".
- Porque tristemente, si analizamos los casos de rupturas...siempre se llega a esta definicion, amar es un arte diario, un arte que varia segun avanza el tiempo, pues la persona va cambiando, y con ella sus necesidades de ser amada. Solo cuidando por ambas partes este aspecto, pues al final a mi juicio, el resultado es poder ver a tu marido o mujer el resto de tu vida juntos.
- Creo que hay dos errores muy extendidos en el entendimiento del amor que suelen tener hombres y mujeres. El primero es que muchos hombres piensan que cuanto mas den y obsequien a su mujer, esta mas les va a amar...obviamente los momentos determinados exigen por parte del hombre una generosidad hacia la persona amada., pero si esto se convierte en un continuo, lo unico que se va conseguir es hacer de la mujer un ser adicto a los regalos y obsequios, y que solo te amara segun la cantidad o valia de los obsequios que hagas. Amarla a mi juicio es algo tan sencillo como escucharla, atenderla, tratar de comprenderla, y sobre todo dejarla libertad de pensamiento y actuacion, pues solo en esas circunstancias sale lo mejor que tiene la mujer dentro.
- Pero los hombres que no saben amar, creen en lo primero, y se limitan a llenar de obsequios y regalos,... sin hacer mas. Eso se hace con una amante no con la mujer que ha decidido pasar la vida contigo.
- Otro error de las mujeres a la hora de amar, es pensar que aman al hombre, por tenerle la casa limpia, preparada la comida y ser complacientes en la intimidad, todo eso esta bien, pero el hombre necesita tambien algo tan sencillo como calor de mujer, y saber que en los momentos en que la fatiga del dia, o el estres hacen mella en el, llegara a casa y tendra alguien que le acariciara, y le mirara a los ojos diciendole que esta ahi y no esta solo en la lucha diaria. La mujer es la fuerza del hombre, y cuando esta fuerza falla o decrece, la mujer que ama y es inteligente, ha de saber y estimular de nuevo a ese hombre para que vuelva a estar lleno de vigor y continuar adelante.
- Esto tan sencillo, que todo el mundo dice que si, que ya lo sabe y que lo hacen....la realidad, es que cuando hay una ruptura y hablas con la gente. Te confiesan que no hicieron nada de esto, tanto ellos como ellas. es triste, porque a mi juicio se pueden salvar muchas relaciones, tan solo sabiendo amar.
Often I stop to think about the causes of this problem about the relations: what ride to a man to be an unbeliever, or to a woman to it be?. In my opinion, there is a base common root: the loss of the love, or the dismunicion of the same one up to a few limits unable to satisfy to one of the parts, or to both. I have to be a target, and to say that most of the infidelities arise from the man. I think that basically and most of the cases influence the physical topic, but also greatly the emotional one, if a woman cannot continue in major or less measurement the rhythm of the man.... there will look for this one the woman who does it.
If a woman falls down in the error of the sufficient thing does not look after to be attractive and sugerente for the man... this one will look who the this thing. The men we will be able to have more or less culture, major or less beginning... but we all have in our genetics this aspect perhaps original, but very really. If in the sex, the man is differing or to grief, he will look for other one. I do not mean with this that to my judgment the woman has to be a slave in aspects of image or sex, it is not also that, but if to be able to be supported lives in these points.
But skylight, now it touches another shift. because the woman is unfaithful?, I have to say that the woman is more faithful than the man for nature when it loves, more aching, more sufriente if the case comes, but then...: because it is unfaithful?, I alone think a reason. Because she does not feel dear.
The purpose and the fact if of being a woman, it is to be loved, wanted, respected. the woman only asks for that, it is not important for him to spend complicated moments, if it is loved, it is the first one in being offered for any matter, but only if it is loved.... perhaps in the fund it would be necessary to restate the title of this reflection, and to come to the conclusion that there is no unfaithful woman, but man who does not love, although in its moment it was his right.
If, because I believe that if a woman is not loved... it will go away, if she does not feel respected, it the man will look round there that that of this love and fondness. If it is not treated by the man with respect and dignity, it will go away... for which we stem to end towards a very clear conclusion.
"THE LOVE, IT IS NECESSARY TO TAKE CARE OF IT EVERY DAY, FROM MAN TO WOMAN AND FROM WOMAN TO MAN".
Because sadly, if we always analyze the cases of ruptures... it goes over to this definition, loving is a daily art, an art that changes as it advances the time, since the person is changing, and with her its needs to be dear. Only taking care on both parts of this aspect, since in the end to my judgment, the result is to be able to see your husband or woman the rest of your life together.
I believe that there are two errors much extended in the understanding of the love that men and women usually have. The first one is that many men think that the more they should give and should offer its wife, this one the more is going to love... obviously the certain moments they demand on the part of the man a generosity towards the dear person., but if this turns into a continuous one, the only thing that goes away to manage it is to do of the woman a being addicted to the gifts and obsequiousnesses, and that only it loved you according to the quantity or worth of the obsequiousnesses that you do. To love it to my judgment is something so simple as to listen to it, to attend to it, to try to understand it, and especially to leave freedom of thought and performance, since only in these circumstances there goes out the best thing that the woman has inside.
But the men who cannot love, believe in the first thing, and limit themselves to filling of obsequiousnesses and gifts... without doing more. That is done by a lover not by the woman who has decided to spend the life with you.
At the time of loving, another error of the women is to think that they love the man, for having the clean house, prepared the meal and being complaisant in the intimacy, all that is well, but the man needs also something so simple like woman's heat, and to know that in the moments in which the fatigue of the day, or the stress they do notch in, it will come to house and will have someone who was caressing him, and will look at him at the eyes saying to him that it is there and is not alone in the daily struggle. The woman is the force of the man, and when this force fails or decreases, the woman who loves and is intelligent, she has to know and to stimulate again this man so that it is full again of vigor and to continue forward.
This so simple, that everybody says that if, that already knows it and that it do.... the reality, is that when there is a rupture and speech with the people. They confess to you that they did not do anything of this, so much they like they. it is sad, because to my judgment many relations can be saved, just being able to love.
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