NARCISISMO... Narcissism.

Siempre he pensado que la persona narcisista, mantiene un vinculo privilegiado consigo mismo, y tiende a desvalorizar a los demas. Esta persona solo establece relaciones para satisfacer su ego. Pero esta claro que tras esa apariencia de independencia, siempre se esconde la debilidad de quien no ha superado una etapa basica de la maduración personal. Estas personas suelen ahogarse en su propia imagen, estando abocadas a la soledad mas absoluta, pues su relacion con los demas siempre será de superioridad, huyendo de quien sobresalga mas que ellos en determinada faceta, y buscando siempre relaciones mas debiles.

Es triste, y a mi me ha pasado a veces, de encontrarte personas que nos hacen sentir como meros instrumentos para lograr sus fines, sin valorar en absoluto nuestras caracteristicas personales, se trata siempre de personas egolatras, que solo piensan en si mismas y son son especialmente descuidadas en su trato con los demas, en su pobreza intelectual, no se dan cuenta que carecen de toda inteligencia social habida y por haber.

Esta clase de personas, estan a la necesidad de un reconocimiento continuo y perpetuo de quienes ellos o ellas consideran su publico, con factores tales como la belleza, fuerza, inteligencia....estas personas suelen tener un ego muy fragil y debil, de tal manera que cuando se encuentran con alguien a quien no pueden superar en una determinada caracteristica, y esta persona les pone un espejo delante para ver su triste realidad, huyen y se esconden, por lo que he visto a veces en casos determinados, la fuerza no es lo suyo, se suelen alimentar de halagos que aumentan su autoestima, hasta superar su propia autocomplacencia.

No es lo mismo obviamente a mi juicio maquillarse para resultar atractiva, que vivir constantemente ante un espejo, porque yo entiendo que una cosa es querer gustar y otra el envanecimiento. Hay mujeres que se someten a una autentica tirania para cumplir la exigencia de la estetica, y pueden poner en peligro su salud, u hombres que no se limitan a un mantenimiento fisico en un gimnasio sino que tratan de desgastar el espejo a base de mirarse segun aumenta su capacidad fisica

Ciertamente, este tipo de personas, carecen de toda empatia con la otra persona, aisladas en su propio paisaje imaginario de negacion de lo que realmente son para solo ver lo que quieren ser, como personajes de un purgatorio mental que huyen de su realidad para refugiarse en otra forjada y creada, donde se siente ama y señora del entorno, el sol alrededor del cual giran el resto de los planetas, como vampiros en busca de victimas de fragil voluntad y facilmente subyugadas a ella.

El narcisismo de autocomplacencia es muy empobrecedor en mi opinion, porque deja a la persona narcisista presa de su ego..."soy el mas fuerte, soy la mas inteligente, bella, superior....el resto de personas deberian dar gracias que este a su lado...", son poseedoras de un ego tan extremadamente fragil y dependiente del reconocimiento de los demas en un grado tan exagerado, que tolera muy mal las criticas- las cuales las vive como un ataque a su afan de superioridad- y que le dificulta aceptar limites en su saber, y creerse poseedoras de la verdad absoluta, sin derecho a replica, en su necesidad de controlar cualquier situacion.

Es un pobre destino, si no se alimentan del trato con los demas, del enriquecimiento que procura el compartir emociones, ideas, tareas, ilusiones. Toda persona narcisista, tiene dificultades para el trato social con los demas, suelen hacer una valoracion muy pobre de los demas, aunque vean que en el fondo sea rica, eso jamas lo admitiran, haciendo un desprecio total a la diferencia

Triste...muy triste.

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I have always thought that the narcissistic person, maintains a privileged tie with it, and tends to devalue to the others. This person only establishes relations to satisfy its ego. But it is clear that after this independence appearance, one always hides the weakness of the one who has not overcome a basic stage of the personal maturation. These persons usually suffocate in their own image, being exposed to the most absolute solitude, since its relation with the others will always be of superiority, fleeing of the one who stands out more than they in certain facet, and always looking for weaker relations.

It is sad, and it has happened to me sometimes, you were found by persons who make us feel how mere instruments to achieve its ends, without valuing by no means our personal characteristics, it is always a question of egomaniacal persons, who only think in if the same and they are they are neglected especially in its dealing with the others, in its intellectual poverty, they do not realize that they lack all existing social intelligence and for to have.

This class of persons, is to the need for a continuous and perpetual recognition of who they or they consider its public, with such factors like the beauty, force, intelligence.... these persons usually have a very fragile and weak ego, in such a way that when they meet someone whom they cannot overcome in a certain characteristic, and this person puts a mirror to them ahead to see its sad reality, flee and hide, therefore I have seen sometimes in certain cases, the force is not his, they usually feed on sweet talk that increase its self-esteem, up to overcoming their own autopleasure.

It is not the same obviously to my judgment to make itself up to turn out to be attractive, through that to live constantly before a mirror, because I understand that a thing is to want to please and other one the conceit. There are women who surrender to an authentic tyranny to fulfill the demand of the esthetics, and can put in danger its health, or men who do not limit themselves to a physical maintenance in a gymnasium but they try to wear the mirror out by means of looking as its physical capacity increases

Certainly, this type of persons, lacks any empathy with another person, isolated in its own imaginary scenery of denial of what really they are only to see what there want to be, like personages of a mental purgatory who flee of its reality to shelter in other one wrought and created, where there feels mistress and lady of the environment, the sun about which they turn the rest of the planets, like vampires in search of victims of fragile will and easily subjugated to her.

The autopleasure narcissism is much empobrecedor in my opinion, because it leaves the imprisoned narcissistic person of its ego... "I am the strongest, I am the most intelligent, a most beautiful, Superior.... the rest of persons should thank that it is next to you...", they are possessors of an ego so extremely fragile and dependent on the recognition of the others in such an exaggerated grade, that he tolerates very badly the criticism - which he lives through them like an attack to its superiority emulation - and that makes difficult to him to accept limits in its knowledge, and to believe possessors of the absolute truth, without right to reply, in its need to control any situation.

It is a poor destination, if they do not feed on the dealing on the others, of the enrichment that tries sharing emotions, ideas, tasks, illusions. Every narcissistic person, has difficulties for the social dealing with the others, they usually do a very poor evaluation of the others, although they see that in the fund it is rich, that they will never admit it, doing an entire scorn to the difference

Sad... very sad.